What to do on Sunday night when there is no job on Monday
On a Sunday night, when there is no job on Monday for you to go to, you can feel miserable. For a lot of people, what they work at defines them. Unemployment is often a source of attack on self-esteem. A new page opens when you are no longer going into a job.
Here are a few tips from my experience. Plus of course , a few I wish I had employed then.
1 Keep your motivation up
Knowing you are going somewhere to make an impact can be very motivating. So how do you keep that sense of mission alive and burning? It differs for each person. It is connected to whatever you are passionate about. Ensure that it is for the benefit of others. That way it can never die off.
2 Structure your activities
Nothing aids productivity more than structure. We all find ourselves in structured activity when at work. Employment brings structure to your regular activities. This will likely be missing in the days following your change of status. It’s important that you retain structure to your day. Although I was not entitled to benefits (having a spouse in full time employment), I got myself in the specified routine from the Job-Centre for getting into employment. Never neglect any source that can help you with self-discipline- the best form there is.
3 Prioritise
The engine for effective use of your time is understanding your priorities. Time is the most important resource you have. Use it wisely. When you are faced with less of other resources than usual is when you have got to be even more careful with the use of your time. Choosing what you spend your time (and who with), becomes more important in relation to the rewards that come out of it.
Granted all these will not be done on the day before unemployment. They must be planned and carried out as quickly as possible. Your creative momentum has to be kept. As with everything in nature, whatever you attract snowballs. Think success, anticipate success. Fine tune your activities from feedback you receive, only don’t let the feedback be a source of discouragement. Lack of feedback may be worse than that disappointing one.
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Chuck,
I have been deleing with my son his mental illness almost 12 years. your blog motivate me , I am thinking a start write a blog about mental illness its like a roller costar. I wish my son can overcome with is illness. he is 28 years old still leaving with me and I have been single mom almost 30 years. please I need your advise. he always stay home and play video game. How can I help him .
There are some resources that you can check. Is your son on medication? Apart from you what help does he get? There is no easy answer to your question. Please contact us directly through the contact page. For you writing a blog can help release some of the frustration on the situation. It is an avenue for exploring your own feelings and can help your own healing as well. Have a look at some of the blogs Zoe has written or even her book “Defying the odds: one man’s struggle and victory over mental illness and his wife whose faith in God never failed” published by Destiny Image Europe in 2011. Please do not give up on your son